Want to keep that conversation going further before it comes to a complete halt. Well here are some tips on how to keep that conversation from going into a silent abyss.
Show that you are interested in what the person is saying. This keeps a person talking and is not in fear that they lost your attention.
If you are comfortable with the person and you really want to get things fired up bring up taboo topics such as politics, abortion rights, and so on. This usually gets things going but it can also lead to anger issues.
Listen attentively and respond appropriately. Listen when they are talking and by maintaining good eye contact and generally nodding your head. Respond during breaks in the conversation by reiterating what they said or asking specific questions to some of the details.
First you have to encourage the talking. Rather than have the subject always be about yourself and you don't look like you're all about you ask plenty of questions. Ask general questions such job, movies, sports, and general topics.
Look for signs when the person is looking for a response from you. They happen naturally and waiting for you to come up with something can effectively ruin the conversation.
Don't pry in to much into the conversation or topic as to seem the person is being interrogated. Keep it simple.
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